Rejection
Introduction
Ok guys! I know this isn't a subject anybody ever wants to think about but it is something that exists and that we often don't handle very well on both sides. There are also a few signs that Rejection is about to hit, guys and girls display very obvious signs that both genders like to ignore just so they don't have to face the reality.
The truth is guys often start backing off on communication and cutting it off way before they even tell you to your face that they aren't into you because they are hoping you get the message without them having to actually hurt your feelings. This isn't ghosting this is the one where they are limiting their contact with you. Another thing that guys who don't have much respect for you might do is ghost you if they simply just aren't into you which is more mean than just coming clean and telling it to your face but it's a pretty obvious sign.
Now girls they won't return your texts or text you back as often as well to limit contact. Girls also are a little more brutal sometimes and will just tell it to your face if they feel you aren't getting it. Sometimes a girl who has no respect for you as well will ghost but this isn't a girl you want to be hanging out with. She'll often look uncomfortable or feel awkward around you because she knows how you feel but she doesn't feel the same way so she doesn't know how to interact with you. This can be different depending on the status of your relationship if your a friend or someone she just meant.
Bottom line is that being rejected is never fun and usually hurts whether it is done correctly or not. To the ones who are Rejected take the time you need but don't dwell on it there will be others.
To the ones Rejecting do it right because it can have an impact on people and usually does for a short period. Try to see it from the other person's point of view and how they must be feeling.
Remember rejection is apart of life and usually something you have to go through to find the right person!
This was a very requested topic if you have any topics you want to be written about please comment below and for the last bit of advice try not to get into denial when your rejected because how the person rejecting feels deserves to be respected as well.
Hopefully this helped you out, until next time!
WRITTEN BY: Emery Levine
Ok guys! I know this isn't a subject anybody ever wants to think about but it is something that exists and that we often don't handle very well on both sides. There are also a few signs that Rejection is about to hit, guys and girls display very obvious signs that both genders like to ignore just so they don't have to face the reality.
The truth is guys often start backing off on communication and cutting it off way before they even tell you to your face that they aren't into you because they are hoping you get the message without them having to actually hurt your feelings. This isn't ghosting this is the one where they are limiting their contact with you. Another thing that guys who don't have much respect for you might do is ghost you if they simply just aren't into you which is more mean than just coming clean and telling it to your face but it's a pretty obvious sign.
Now girls they won't return your texts or text you back as often as well to limit contact. Girls also are a little more brutal sometimes and will just tell it to your face if they feel you aren't getting it. Sometimes a girl who has no respect for you as well will ghost but this isn't a girl you want to be hanging out with. She'll often look uncomfortable or feel awkward around you because she knows how you feel but she doesn't feel the same way so she doesn't know how to interact with you. This can be different depending on the status of your relationship if your a friend or someone she just meant.
Some more advice
Bottom line is that being rejected is never fun and usually hurts whether it is done correctly or not. To the ones who are Rejected take the time you need but don't dwell on it there will be others.
To the ones Rejecting do it right because it can have an impact on people and usually does for a short period. Try to see it from the other person's point of view and how they must be feeling.
Remember rejection is apart of life and usually something you have to go through to find the right person!
This was a very requested topic if you have any topics you want to be written about please comment below and for the last bit of advice try not to get into denial when your rejected because how the person rejecting feels deserves to be respected as well.
Hopefully this helped you out, until next time!
WRITTEN BY: Emery Levine